FUCK YOU TYRESE (You sexy mutherfucker you)

I just read an article posted on Madame Noire | Black Women’s Lifestyle Guide | Black Hair | Black Love …gotta say one of my favorite sites, tho i usually dont agree w/ the posts. But this article in question pissed me off http://madamenoire.com/90435/tyrese-to-womenyou%E2%80%99re-going-to-independent-your-way-into-loneliness/ (its short i promise)

To that I have to say this (and please read the article so u kno what im talking about, well… you might be able to decipher it…basically Tyrese thinks that black women are “too independent” and that is why they are single)

Lot of black female hating going around…..Black women are mean, they are too independent, they are too needy, they are lazy, they are whores…They are bad mothers etc…..the point? Black women are the cause of all their own problems, when they are left to care for children completely alone because a black man skipped out on them, it is their own fault. When they are raped by black men, beaten by black men, it is their own fault for being to aggressive or not aggressive enough. And now we are either too needy or too independent….not spending enough time catering to the black man’s ego, too busy trying to be financially stable and provide for ourselves where a black man cannot and will not, I’m sick and tired of this ish. I’m sick and tired of black women having to be the backbone of the black community and getting shit on for being too “independent” …which in translation means too manly because only men are allowed to be completely self reliant and happy without a boyfriend. Get a clue Tyrese, there are PLENTY of women who prefer to be alone, BY CHOICE, they are happy with having friends and family who love them and prefer not to cater to the emotional (and sometimes financial) insecurities & needs of grown ass men who need someone to dominate. It literally turns my stomach every time i read something like this, black men are so comfortable blaming the ills of the black community on us…why? BECAUSE THEY HARDLY MAKE UP THE BLACK COMMUNITY. They are always MIA, in prison (not entirely their fault) or skipping out on the black family to fulfill boyhood dreams of fucking every girl in the world instead of being FATHERS to their children. PUHLEEEEEZE. Get the fuck over yourselves. Black women are independent because they have BUSINESS to take care of and they can’t afford to let their guard down and find themselves fucked over by black patriarchal terrorism. Also don’t throw homosexuality into the equation, our sex lives and choices pertaining to whom we love have nothing to do with YOU. If we choose to love another woman, it has nothing to do with YOU. Take a look around Tyrese, Black women don’t need black men anymore! You have nothing to offer us that we can’t offer ourselves….that puts us on equal ground, that means you have to bring more to the table than good looks and a big dick BABY BOY. The life of a black woman no longer revolves around that of the black man, get used to that shit, it isnt subject to change. Black women are not responsible for the irresponsibility and insecurities of the black male. And if we choose not to lower our standards, our guard or change our desires to fit something or someone that we don’t want or is detrimental to our success then you’d better fucking accept that.

Why are black women expected to give up everything to be with a black man? Black women with college degrees have to settle for black men who barely graduated highschool because our pool of men is disgustingly scarce and WE ARE TOO INDEPENDENT?! We are carrying this community on our fucking backs, unwillingly but without choice, we are INTEGRAL to the survival of our race and we do it damn near alone! GTFOH

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8 thoughts on “FUCK YOU TYRESE (You sexy mutherfucker you)

  1. Wow. Fantastic.

    *breathless, speechless applause*

    Your take on this issue completely buries mine.

    Get the fuck over yourselves. Black women are independent because they have BUSINESS to take care of and they can’t afford to let their guard down and find themselves fucked over by black patriarchal terrorism

    PREACH.

    1. im sure it doesnt bury! i’d love to hear ur take on it! I was just straight disgusted with that statement….everything is the fault of the black woman because black men can do no wrong…..wrong answer.

  2. I’ve been lurking on the blog for the past few days, because I’m new here. I love what I’ve seen, and this post HAS to be my favorite so far!!!! I’ve never seen a more thorough and eloquent take on this topic. BRAVO!!! *happy tears*

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